1. its unexpected
2. we planned this waaaaay ahead
3. its not his/my fault
4. ticket is refundable but he only gets 600 back instead of 800
5. if we knew this would happen we would have obviously planned another date.
6. not sure when i am going to see him again. i have school, he has his boat schedule.
7. they are not going to switch him out because they are ignorant assholes!!